7 Things To Do To Overcome Holiday Season Loneliness

With the holidays rolling in, this is the time of the year that most of us women tend to get the loneliest. It’s the time of the year where everything seems so fairy tale. From the big beautiful trees, to the glowing lights, and the site of people gathered around singing Christmas carols–everything is perfect. Everywhere you go you see couples that are seemingly in love–walking through the department stores, holding hands, and just enjoying each other’s company. In your mind you are oooo-ing and aww-ing at how cute they really are–that is until you realize your harsh reality, you’re single. You have no one to buy a cute gift for, no one to kiss under the mistletoe, no one is on your roster at the moment. It completely sucks, right?

You began to think, “Here it is the holidays and I’m single once again.” At some point, we have all had that visual of drinking hot chocolate around the fire place, while we’re cuddled up with the guy we love–how romantic.

As the taunting thoughts of being alone are running through your mind, you turn to food as your comfort, continuing to drown yourself in sorrow, sadness, and lots and lots of ham, dressing, potato salad….okay maybe the food part isn’t so bad, but you get the point.

I know, we all have our days where the single life is not what’s up. However, do not let that ruin what’s suppose to be one of the most joyous times of the year. Do not let that stop you from celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ with your family and friends. Those are the loved ones that matters most. Rushing into a relationship just because you’re “lonely” will not fix anything. A lot of times we jump into things too fast due to vulnerability–not even knowing the person is a complete waste of time. So, if staying single for a while will save me from wasting time that I cannot get back, or save me from gaining permanent heartbreak over temporary feelings, then hell, I’ll wait 20 years. The point is, being lonely can make us do crazy things, do not fall victim to it. Do not suffocate yourself in depression over being “the single one” for a while. Be free, be happy, love YOU.

So, in order to help you overcome your holiday loneliness,  there’s a list of 7 things you could do to keep your mind in good spirits. Check them out below.

 

Get Crafty

Show your creative side through arts and crafts! If you’re like me, and you love showing off your artistic side, partake in some holiday crafts by working on a project. Personalized ornaments, mason jars, wreaths, and handmade crochet or sewn apparel are good for starters. See Pinterest for more ideas!

 

Bake Goodies

Who doesn’t like experimenting in the kitchen with some baked goodies? Bake up some cookies, cakes, or pies and get your munch on. Add some food decor (IE: icing, candy, sprinkles) to make it even more fun. If you have kids, this would be great as a family activity.

 

Stay Around Family/Friends

It is never fun to go through the holidays alone! Even if you don’t have that special guy in your life, your family and friends are always going to be there. Whether it’s baking cookies, decorating the Christmas tree, or watching movies, think of good ways to bring your loved ones together and spend quality time!

 

Pamper Yourself

Treat yourself to a shopping spree, get your hair done, get your nails done. Spend a day doing nothing but self pampering. If you don’t have much money, do it at home! Nothing like a hot bath. We all need some “me time” at some point or another. A great way to get in some relaxation and prep for your holiday fleekness.

 

Indulge In A Good Book

Reading is a good way to take yourself to a different element, as well as soothe the mind! Channel your inner nerd. We all have it deep down somewhere.

 

Play Music

It’s so simple, plug in your headphones or blast the music through your speakers. Music is good for the soul. Lift your spirits with your favorite kind of music. If you’re going to be alone then you might as well have fun while you are, right? It’s also a good way to get exercise. Don’t hesitate to drop it like it’s hot; no one’s watching.

 

Volunteer

There are so many ways to lend a helping hand during this season. From gift wrapping, to helping out a family in need. Find ways to give back to your community! Get out of the house, be productive, and do a good deed.  I don’t know about you, but seeing smiles on the faces of others, instantly puts a smile on mine. So many young children are going without this year; you have the power to change that. Offering your love, and showing that you care goes a long way.

Holiday Crockpot Foods: Weenie Wraps

Christmas is quickly approaching, and you have yet to figure out what you’re going to bring to the family Christmas Eve Party. You’ve thought about bringing chips, or a cake–or maybe even a punch, but that’s the norm. Rotel dip is already on the menu, so now you’re thinking long and hard. Search no further, weenie wraps would be the perfect dish for any holiday gathering.

Wrapped in bacon and marinated in brown sugar, these little weenies are delicious. I’ve had them on plenty occasions, and every time I do, the whole pot gets gone. Nothing like a sweet and savory snack to end the night off!

Get the deets on how to make this dish below

Things you will need:

Crock Pot

Big Spoon

Toothpicks

Pack of Hotdogs (Jumbo) or Cocktail Weenies (This dish can be made with both. Whichever you choose is fine)

Pack of Bacon (Any kind)

1 Box of Dominos Light Brown Sugar

Now that you have the essentials and ingredients you need, lets make some Weenie Wraps!

1. First take each hotdog  and cut them into 3 pieces. (if you are using cocktail weenies, you will NOT need to cut those)

2. Take the bacon slices and cut each of them in half. Wrap each piece around your weenies.

3. Stick toothpicks in the middle of each weenie wrap. The toothpick should make the bacon stay.

4. Now put your weenies in the crock pot. Make sure its not too many in the pot. If you overload the pot with them, the bottom ones will cook faster than the top ones.

5. Pour a whole box of light brown sugar over the weenie wraps. The more your pour the sweeter they will be. If you would like them to be very sweet then you could extend the sugar to about a box and a half.

Okay, you’re all set. It’s time to cook! These weenie wraps could be done TWO ways. 

– Cook overnight

Cooking them overnight will eventually lead to better results, because the wraps have time to simmer and marinade in the brown sugar sauce. The longer you cook them, the more savory they will be!

Set your crock pot on LOW so they can slow cook.

Also, be sure to keep your weenie wraps throughout the night so they won’t potentially burn.

– Cook For 6 Hours

If you’re in a rush, and don’t have all night to cook the dish, this is the easiest and quickest way to make them. Although I prefer cooking them overnight, they are still very tasty this way as well.

Set your crock pot on HIGH so they can cook faster.
Written by: Ashley Blackwell (@ashleytearra)

The Holiday Gift Guide For Sneaker Heads

The holiday season is the actually the best time to seek exclusives releases from your favorite designers. During the holiday season, brands tend to work on limited time only collaborations with other popular artist and designers. From sneakers to jacket, here’s the most anticipated sneaker kicks and apparel of this season.

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Do’s and Don’ts For Your Next Holiday Party

By: Krissy Lewis
iamfeistyy

As your holiday invitations start to flood your desk, emails, texts, and social media, there’s a couple of things you need to know before you’re eager to accept them all. Of course your outfit and hair is a big deal, but choosing the right holiday party is definitely important. If you like to party with friends and family, you can fully unleash. However, company parties, are a bit different. Although everything is covered by the company’s budget, don’t forget with every glass of wine,  Jason from marketing is judging your every move.

Have fun and still enjoy your holiday party with these do’s and don’ts.

Do drink, if you’re over 21 years, then you’re definitely allowed to have a drink.

Don’t abuse your limit if you’re a three cup kinda guy or gal, make your drinking limit is two cups of alcohol.

Do have fun.

Don’t take advantage, everyone’s watching you and all the good you’ve done for the company won’t matter after tonight.

Do be prepared to shake hands and act accordingly, at the end of the day it’s still business.

Don’t forgot these aren’t your friends, they’re your colleagues.

Do dress to impress.

Don’t wear anything you wouldn’t wear to the office, that includes anything revealing or extremely over the top.

Do network with people you don’t know, almost everyone will be there.

Don’t talk just about work, find out the person’s interest, like, favorite books. This may help you out later. Also don’t stick to one person or share too much of your personal business, keep the conversation positive.

Do  take lots of pictures. Be memorable and be sure everyone knows who your are, however, be able to balance each relationship you build.

Don’t look for love, there’s a time and place for things.

Keep these in mind and have a good time.

A Celebrity Christmas

Tons of celebrities took to social media on the holiday to wish fans a Merry Christmas. There were plenty of luxurious get aways, some stars opted to stay in and have a traditional Christmas, and even Chris Brown managed to break the internet with his Christmas Challenge, which was doing a dance routine battling Chris to Chingy’s 2003 hit “Right Thurr”.

P. Diddy took his family on a family trip on his reportedly $72 million yacht to St. Barts. Diddy shared pictures of his daughters Chance, and twins D’Lila Star and Jessie James who he fathered with Kim Porter.

Fan were a little shocked to see Kim Porter along for the ride on the yacht as Diddy has been in an open relationship with Cassie for a few years. Rumor has it, Kim Porter doesn’t want Cassie around her children. Could this be true?

Diddy also posted of pic of him with their son Christian, who is the absolute spitting image of Diddy. Rihanna spent the holiday in her native island of Barbados, and she looked amazing in a red bikini showing off her hot body!

Beyoncé and Jay-Z traveled from Iceland to Thailand to celebrate Christmas.

By the looks of it, all of our favorite celebrities had a very Merry Christmas!

Breaking The Mold–Her Tonka Truck for Christmas!

February, my least favorite month–or at least it was until this year. February is the month of love, or so people think it is because of Valentine’s Day. Annually, we watch as women swoon over candy and roses; and their suitors break their banks in hopes of a truly romantic evening. For me, however, it is my birth month. With me being born a mere two days before the holiday, I have often found myself in a losing a competition for my family and friends’ time and attention. Then, when in May, my brother’s fiancee announced she was pregnant; I knew yet again my special day would take yet another backseat…

Aairess (pronounced “heiress) Nyari Victoria McCurdy-Fanning (a mouthful huh?) was born on the late afternoon of February 3, 2014. It is rare girls are born into my family. In fact, it had been twenty-five years since my youngest sister, the last girl, was born into the family. Naturally, she was the source of quite a celebration. My brother and I, at best are fierce rivals, many liken us to Batman and The Joker. So, when it came time for me to meet my new niece for the first time I was not too thrilled. I entered the hallowed halls of the hospital with the intent of doing my uncle and brotherly duties and then abruptly departing, knowing I had taken the higher road.